Abby’s story
My name is Abby,
Two years ago, I collapsed while out shopping. I woke up paralysed, numb and unable to speak. Neurology diagnosed Functional Neurological Disorder. “Your symptoms are functional, you’ll likely return to normal in a week or two.” WRONG! I spent the next couple of months teaching myself how to walk and talk again, navigating pregnancy, pain, fatigue, tremors, brain fog and grief of my old life while working part time outside of the classroom.
I was convinced that maybe it had all been in my head until I had functional seizures for the first time. It was a downward spiral for months until I left my abusive relationship, which became a turning point in my life.
I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia but rebuilt my life with my daughter and saw a massive improvement in my symptoms. However, FND does not discriminate! April 2026, I was admitted to hospital while away with friends three hours from home. There were lots of ups and downs but for the first time TWO qualified doctors told me that this condition is not all in my head. With the help of an incredible nursing and physiotherapy team, sixteen days later, I made enough progress to come home without being transferred to another hospital or possibly a Care Home (which was considered).
Yes, I am young (23). Yes, FND did take my teaching career. Yes, FND did change motherhood for me. Yes, some days I wish that I wasn’t ill. However, it has taught me how mentally strong I can be, how to advocate for myself and others, how to be kind to myself and highlighted how much I still have going for me in ways I hadn’t considered before.
FND and Fibromyalgia did not end my life but it has changed my perspective on what is possible